Dear Wildflowers,
The following are the very first words from the book “Reclaiming Body Trust” by Hilary Kinavey and Dana Sturtevant:
I am a person reclaiming trust in my body. My hunger, my appetites, my longings, my skin, my bones, my size are mine for the taking. I take back my worthiness, my belonging in the world of beautiful and diverse beings. I live without apology for the straight lines and curves, living tissue, vulnerable heart that hold my living, breathing manifested story.
I will not trade my right to express my freedom, my needs, my wants or my beauty.
I feel where my body begins and I protect where it ends. The marketing, the expectations, the gaze of the “other” belong outside of me and are not for my internalization. I will no longer ingest the external and make it my goal or my standard. I will not trade my right to express my freedom, my needs, my wants or my beauty.
I listen for my appetites, all of them. I say yes. And I say no. My body is wise. It knows me. It is me. I am it. It is not an expression of glutton or neglect, nor is it ugly. It is an expression of life, and of being alive. It is my companion for this life that has been a journey, replete with unexpected bumps and grooves, loves and losses — and as so, my body expresses my story with its textures, shapes, peaks and valleys.
I will not betray you, body, for an endless diet or self-improvement project. I will not confuse thinness for health. I am a person reclaiming my movement, my rhythm, my flow. I seek satisfaction and explore pleasure. I value my inner peace, my self-worth, more than the approval of the outside, stigma and hate inflicted eye.
I will count myself among the millions of other people who have come before who have struggled to live compassionately in the bodies they have, and I will also count myself among the millions of people to come who will reclaim body trust. I am not alone on the path. In fact, I am helping to transition the world with my courage, my fierceness, my bold and beautiful body.
I had just opened this book and read these words and immediately thought that maybe, if you haven’t read them yet yourself, you too may find them as helpful and inspiring as I do. And the assignment is simple, come back to them often this week. Speak them out loud or read them in a moment of particular questioning and distrust of your body.
I wish I had written them to you myself as a loving reminder that we are all worthy of reclaiming body trust. But the least I could do was share them with you and in the meantime, I’ll be over here reading the rest of the book and if you want to as well, I would highly recommend it already!
Also YOGA THIS WEEK!
And for you dear Wildflower clients…